January 20, 2008 | Sex Life

Turning a blind(folded) eye

It happens to everyone.  Sex with your partner, even hot do-it-in-every-room sex, can become a little routine. He sucks you. You pinch his nipple. He asks, "Who's your daddy?" You both laugh. He cums. You cum. And it's all over in 4.34 minutes.

Time for a little spice. And no, this won't cost you a cent.

One of the easiest, and quickest, ways to make sex more exciting is by blindfolding your partner. Anything will do, such as a silk tie or thin towel. If you like to play a little dirty, you can even use your underwear. (And no, your thong won't work!) All that matters is that he can see as little as possible.

First, surprise him. Gently place the blindfold around his eyes while kissing him on the cheek and telling him he can't take it off. Then lead him to the bedroom, helping him out of his clothing and laying him back onto the bed. Now the real fun can begin...

Clint from Chaos Men demonstrates the power of the blindfold.

The best position is spread eagle as this will give you full access to any part of his body you want to explore. Start by trailing your finger over different parts of his naked form. Pinch his nipple, and then glide your fingers along the inside of his thigh. Kiss his temple and then grab his cock firmly. Keep him guessing where you'll visit next.

This is your chance to tease him. Take full advantage of this moment. Always, and we mean ALWAYS, brush against, touch, caress and kiss his cock but only for brief moments. Allow him to experience other erogenous zones, while learning for yourself what sends goosebumps across his skin and what gets little response.

Normal sex is also enhanced with the blindfold. If you normally top him, try it while he can't watch you. Or let him suck you off while you pull your cock out of reach from time to time making him guess where it is.

All this and not a penny spent. Man, are we good!